Tantra Is The Opposite Of Porn – Learning How To Actually Be Intimate

What if studying tantra could heal our addiction to Porn? What if tapping into our natural abilities to experience ecstasy changes everything?

Today’s guest writer is Kjetil Dreyer, the founder of Helsefrihetsaksjonen and Natur.no. Dreyer is a wise man which constantly reminds us to look at the big picture through his Facebook page. And his writing about tantra it goes like this:

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I have been practicing Tantra for several years now, strangely enough, also women are afraid of it because as some say, they think they know how to make love with their hearts… What they miss is that it is more a mastery of ruling ones own intention, for men, it has to be the intention to be a creator and a giver, and for woman, the intention of pure receiving and gathering energy, being able to accept and release, to let go and to let happen, to surrender. Pure natural flow.

But, it is not all about that, it is a science of body, mind and spirit and how to merge the souls of man and woman together as one. That cannot happen with porn like sex.

Tantric lovemaking is the true science of connection where I believe there is no deeper connection in our universe than man and woman coming together as one, in mind, body and spirit, when that happens one can feel the all encompassing power of unconditional love, and long enough to get a real taste of heaven.

What we have lost in our time in relationships is the purity of lovemaking, I see it also as a great healing art, and have withnessed healing happen there and then during tantric lovemaking.

In my eyes, all women in the world desperately need to experience this kind of lovemaking at least once in their lives, it will create an entirely new world to live in, because after she has truly experienced it, the world changes for her and she will never accept again to be with a energy vampyre of a man, or to fall into a desperate kind of sex she will regret for the rest of her life.

She will see a much deeper part of herself and she will experience a much deeper love towards herself, she will also see that Man (the masculine) can bring her to complete satisfaction if his intention is pure, if his intention is to be a giver.

She will then be able to read mans intention better and her chakras will open up, she will be much more aware in this world, and able to navigate and protect herself to a much higher degree. She will also feel much more protected in this world.

On several occasions I have had to work long on the female chakras and energy system to release blockages before and during lovemaking because of restrictions women put on themselves for many reasons. It can be programming from society, it can be suffering from abuse, or feeling of being abused by men that does not respect or understand her limits, from all kinds of things, also tension and stress in the female body that have build up for years. When her energy system starts working again, magic happens for her. It is true beauty and pure ecstasy.

A man´s role in the world is to protect women and children. Women´s role is to teach Men how to love, to find their hearts, and to be the carrier of unconditional love (or god, or the creator of pure nature).